Is it normal to talk less in a long-term relationship?
Depends.It depends
Yes, many couples talk less as a relationship settles in, and quiet can feel comfortable. It’s worth paying attention if the silence feels lonely, tense, or like you can’t talk about things that matter.
It’s common for the nonstop getting-to-know-you conversations to taper off. You may feel comfortable sharing quiet moments, or communicate through routines and little gestures instead of talking everything through out loud.
The important part is how the quiet feels to both of you. If you still feel close and can bring up what matters, less chatter isn’t automatically a problem. If you’re avoiding each other, feeling shut out, or only talking about logistics, try naming that gently and making room for an honest conversation.