Topics Friends & social life

Is it normal to have no friends in college?

Mostly.Normal for most people

Yes, it’s normal to go through college without close friends, especially while you’re settling in or finding your people. It can still feel lonely, and you’re allowed to take small steps toward building connections.

College can look like one big friendship montage from the outside, but lots of people feel isolated or haven’t found their people yet. Classes, schedules, living situations, and the pressure to seem like you’re having the best time can all make connecting harder than it looks.

Not having friends right now doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that it’ll always be this way. Repeated, low-pressure contact often helps: try a club, study group, campus activity, or chatting with someone you see regularly. You don’t have to click with everyone—or make a whole friend group overnight.

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