Is it normal to not feel secure?
Depends.It depends
Yes, it can be normal to feel insecure or unsettled, especially during stressful or uncertain times. If it’s constant or tied to a situation where you’re genuinely unsafe, it deserves attention rather than just brushing off.
A lot of people go through stretches when they don’t feel secure—about themselves, a relationship, or what’s coming next. Stress, change, past experiences, and uncertainty can all make that feeling louder.
How much it matters depends on what’s behind it. If it comes and goes, that’s a pretty human wobble. If it’s taking over your day or someone’s behavior is making you feel unsafe, talk it through with someone you trust and take the concern seriously.