Is it normal to share your partner?
Some couples consensually share partners or have open relationships, while others prefer monogamy. It’s only a healthy arrangement when everyone involved genuinely agrees and feels free to set boundaries or say no.
Yes, some people choose open relationships or other forms of consensual non-monogamy, and others have no interest in sharing a partner at all. Neither preference is automatically more normal or loving than the other.
The important part is that everyone involved is an adult, knows what’s happening, and genuinely wants the arrangement—not just going along with it to avoid losing someone. Talk clearly about boundaries, safer sex, and what each of you expects. If you feel pressured or miserable, that matters; you don’t have to agree to it to be a good partner.