Is it normal to regret getting kittens?
Yes, it’s normal to feel regret or wonder if you made a mistake after getting kittens. They can be a lot of work, and feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean you don’t care about them.
Kittens bring noise, mess, interrupted sleep, vet bills, and constant supervision—sometimes all at once. It’s common to have a “What have I done?” moment while you adjust, especially if you expected the cute parts to be the whole experience.
For many people, the feeling eases as the kittens settle into a routine and you get to know their personalities. Try to make the workload manageable with help, playtime, and a kitten-proofed space. If you decide you truly can’t care for them, talk to the rescue, shelter, or breeder about a safe, responsible next step rather than feeling you have to muddle through alone.