Is it normal to wish death upon someone?
Mostly.Normal for most people
Yes—people sometimes have a fleeting “I wish they’d disappear” or even “I wish they were dead” thought when they’re furious or hurt. Having the thought isn’t the same as wanting or planning to act on it.
A harsh thought can be your anger venting, especially after a painful conflict. Lots of people have thoughts they’d never want to turn into real life, and feeling disturbed by the thought can be a sign that it doesn’t match what you actually want.
If the thought keeps coming back, try to step away from the person and talk it through with someone you trust. If you’re making a plan, feel close to acting, or aren’t sure you can keep them safe, create distance and get immediate help from someone you trust or local emergency services.